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2010-05-02T21:50:00.001-04:00

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27 Weeks

2010-04-28T21:07:00.001-04:00

April 28th. Exactly three months from July 28th. That is at once exciting, terrifying, and exhilarating. When I imagine actually holding Charlotte in my arms, actually - I can't even imagine it. Andrew had a dream several nights ago that she was born, he saw her and held her, and the next day she was four years old! Anybody want to take a stab at that interpretation? Mom, it's a good thing you bought all those headbands and bows because he said she was totally bald :) I hope that in between shifting from side to side and moving pillows around to get comfortable I'll dream about her sometime soon.

I got an especially worrisome email from Pottery Barn this week. The bedding had been on backorder until May 27. Now it won't ship out until July 5! Yikes! I haven't found anything else I love, so I'm going to hold out for it. I figure even if she's early, she'll be in the bassinet for awhile before transitioning to the crib anyway. That's reason not to worry, right? Can you tell I need a little reassurance? I'm a little needy these days :)

At 27 weeks. Even though I have fully embraced the roundness, for the record, I don't appreciate overhearing students say, "It looks like she's about to explode!" I will be making an announcement to all my classes tomorrow just to clarify.

My latest engagement session over at Sarah C. Photography.

Maddie and The Chicks

2010-04-25T21:09:00.006-04:00

Friday night Dad treated us to dinner (while Mom was bedridden with one of her ever-increasing migraines) at I Love NY Pizza in South Knoxville. It's a bit of a drive, but those garlic knots were totally worth it. Such a fun place. If you're ever out that way, definitely give it a try.

Then Andrew and I met this beautiful girl at the ball park to watch Maddie play softball.

She tried just about everything to get out of this stroller, but she ended up staying in it the entire game. Impressive!

Maddie made her fans proud scoring a run and running a ball in to home plate.

Her team, the Chicks, was really intimidating with their soft pink shorts and Barbie bats ;)

We realized that in five years, we'll probably be at the ballpark cheering for Charlotte - hopefully on a team other than the Orange Crush - could bring back some bad memories for her Mama. Lets hope she takes after Andrew in the athleticism department.

Some exciting developments are coming on the blog - my personal and photo blog will be one and the same. Hope you like the changes!

26 Weeks

2010-04-21T20:48:00.006-04:00

Our crib came in this weekend, so Andrew got on it right away. If it looks familiar, it's because it's the same one at Mom's house. In fact, it's the same design as my own baby crib.

I just love the femininity of the spindles.

This guy is so good. (That's not where the bookshelf will go, BTW. We still have to move the desk out of the office.)

He had this thing together in no time.

Milly was a little concerned. She sat on the office chair to keep an eye on things throughout the assembling process.

Here's the progression of the baby bump (and my freakishly fast-growing hair) - from 15 to 25 weeks.

Though pregnancy definitely has its perks as I mentioned in the last post, I have to say it ain't all cupcakes and rainbows around here. My lower back has been killing me the last few days. All of a sudden, I'm irritable and cranky for no reason. I actually apologized to my students today because their nonstop questions about researching in the library about drove me mad. I'm exhausted when I get home from coaching tennis everyday (Rachel, I don't expect any sympathy from you :) At least I'm getting a full night's rest.) Andrew has to run all errands, do the grocery shopping, the cooking, the cleaning, and even the laundry. It's not easy, but it's all worth it. I love nothing more than coming home to Andrew every night and talking about Charlotte, feeling her flip-flop around my belly, and imagining being her parents in three months.

At 26 Weeks. Thanks, Rachel, for the maternity wear on loan!

The Joys of Pregnancy

2010-04-18T20:22:00.005-04:00

For those of you who remember my first major Mom mistake, rest assured that the first picture ever of Charlotte has now been found. The public library emailed me to say that our ultrasound picture was returned. As I thought, I had left it in a book after using it as a bookmark. Never again will I make that mistake!

This was such a fun week with the arrival of John Thomas Kirkpatrick. Rachel had a crazy fast delivery. She called me at 8:30 to say she was having contractions. At 9:00 she was on her way to the hospital and by 10:40 he was here!

Read more about this sweet one at Kirkpatrick's Corner.

One thing I'm realizing about pregnancy is how great it is to get so much attention all the time. Need some help picking out a stroller? Mom is happy to help. Craving Hostess Ding Dongs? Husband will toss you one as he walks in from the grocery. Feet tired at band practice after a long day working and coaching? You get the only chair on stage. Want half of two doughnuts at your parents' house instead of just picking one? Not a problem. (That one's for you, honey:))

People at school, at church, at the store always ask how I'm feeling and how much longer I have. Some are surprised at how fast it's gone; others, at how much longer I have. To some I'm smaller than they would expect; to others, they can't believe I'm only 25 weeks. It doesn't really matter what they say, I just love talking about pregnancy and especially about Charlotte. When people ask if I'm having a boy or girl, I always throw in her name. Most seem surprised at a somewhat old-fashioned name, but they act like they love it. Whether or not they're saying that just to be nice, I don't care. I love saying her name. I fall more in love with it everyday. It really gives her an identity. I can't wait to really get to know her personality. I'm a little nervous after she kicked Andrew in the face while he was giving my belly a kiss. Uh oh! Looks like we're in for it:)

Make sure to visit the photo blog for a story about the attack of the Campbell County Cows!

25 Weeks

2010-04-14T21:59:00.004-04:00

I'm sitting here now as Rachel has just gone to the hospital with contractions five minutes apart. We were just walking laps around the school about six hours ago, and she showed no signs of labor. Crazy how fast your world can change! I should be meeting John Thomas tomorrow!

I woke up this morning realizing that 25 weeks sure feels like a big number. I'm starting to sense the pressure to get some things checked off the to-do list. Mom and I went to Crib and Carriage to order the crib and glider this week. We're going Friday to Direct Buy to order the dresser. I can't ever do anything the easy way and just get it all at one store. We've probably sent about 20 emails back and forth discussing dresser ideas, but I finally settled on one. I'll save the pictures for when they actually arrive. Oh the suspense!

Today Andrew picked up a crib and changing table from a friend to use at Mom and Dads. I guess this is typical of first-time parents, but we had to go put it together tonight. I don't think Mom minded though :) The bedding she ordered just came in so was pretty excited to get in on the crib. Hopefully she'll blog the pictures soon. No pressure though, Mom!

I had a lovely surprise waiting for me when we got to Moms. Miriam has been a busy bee making some sweet baby gifts.

This is the softest blanket I have ever felt. And contrary to what my family would have you believe, I actually won't fight Charlotte for it. She just better not fight me for mine! The little ribbon loops are my favorite detail. I just know she will love it!

This was the first time I had seen her name monogrammed, and I just fell in love with it all over again. Aren't these diapers beautiful? Thanks, Miriam.

Here we are at 25 weeks. The major milestone today was feeling her hiccup for the first time. This week her lungs are developing so I guess that's appropriate timing!

European Moonpie

2010-04-11T21:55:00.007-04:00

It's been a photo full weekend, but no worries, I made a little time for a few treats. I'm feeling free to enjoy them more often (as if I didn't already :)) since I learned Friday that I hadn't gained any weight in four weeks. I'm guessing it's due to the food poisoning over Spring Break and not being able to eat the morning before the doctor's appointment, but still - a good excuse for adding a few calories.

After my Saturday morning session at the World's Fair Park, I headed to Market Square not realizing the Dogwood Arts Festival was in full swing. I braved the crowd anyway. When my stomach started growling and I realized it was just 10:30, I couldn't pass up the opportunity for a cinnamon sugar crepe at the French Market. Just after I ordered it, I looked in the glass display cabinet and saw a selection of French macaroons. When the cashier asked if I needed anything else, what was I to do? I was instantly transported to the Champs-Elysees just outside of Laduree. Remember reading about it?

Anyway, I paid $8 for seven of these macaroons which Andrew called little European Moonpies. I don't think so! In case you're wondering - yes, it was worth it.

I stopped in one of my favorite stores, Bliss, and couldn't pass up this wood block to add to Charlotte's bookshelf.

I saw this Bath Buddy last time I was in there and totally regretted not buying it. I fixed that! Hopefully this will make bathtime, funtime.

Be sure to check out the recent updates on the photo blog.

24 Weeks

2010-04-07T20:14:00.003-04:00

Charlotte's bassinet came in the mail yesterday, and we couldn't wait another day to put it up. Andrew got to work while watching the Yankees/Red Sox game. I was hoping to just use the pack'n play as a bassinet, but it's too big for our already tight bedroom.

As soon as Andrew pulled it out of the box, though, I was so glad we got this one.

How cute is this? It came with a canopy, but I thought it was a bit much. We're going with just the bottom part.

Milly is already having a hard time adjusting. She just stood outside the bedroom door and whined the entire time Andrew was putting it together. It's crazy that a dog can be so intuitive, but this pup definitely senses the changes to come.

The green color works with our bedroom colors and will be good for future boy babies. So practical!

Excuse the wrinkles. I figured I would just have to wash it again later, so we'll wait a few more weeks to do that.

I go to the doctor Friday at 1:30 for the dreaded glucose test where I can't eat any carbs, sugar, or fruit all morning. What else is there to eat? I seriously don't know what I'm going to do. I probably shouldn't be spending this much time planning my breakfast and lunch for Friday, but they've wiped out all of my basic food groups, and I'm at a loss. Let me know if you have any suggestions.

24 Weeks Down. It's flying by!

Easter

2010-04-04T20:48:00.008-04:00

I spent about two hours making these darned (trust me, it's just the font that makes it looks like that word!) lemon cupcakes last night. After all the stirring and cleaning, I'm not sure it was worth it to make four different icing colors. I just had to use Mom's new cupcake tree though. I just may never use it again :)

After church, Dad's family came over to eat - the first time ever we didn't go to Mamaw and Papaw's for lunch and an egg hunt. Strange, but Mamaw sure has earned a break from all that cooking.

When my cousin, Holly, mentioned that Lucy's favorite new tune is Lady Gaga's "Poker Face," Mom jumped to turn on her iPod. Turns out Mom is a closet Lady Gaga fan!

This is her cheese face. Precious!

Here's Mattie in his new Easter shirt. Only a few weeks until this guy is a college graduate!

He seems to be practicing his uncle-ing skills.

But Lucy was a little preoccupied with the sweets.

Our last Easter without Charlotte. One of my first thoughts today was whether her dress next year will be Strasburg or Baby Gap. Goodness. I may need an intervention soon.

Our next stop was in Maryville for the egg hunt at Melissa's.

Lexi was pretty excited about what she found.

Sweet Katelyn climbed in my lap for me to hold her and give her a bottle. Charlotte was kicking like crazy. Jealous much, baby girl?

Emma Grace was totally into the Nerds.

But she kindly shared some with her canine friends. Lilly, here, is a Dorkie - a Dachshund/Yorkie mix. Lilly, Dorkie. Milly, Yorkie. How cute! They should be besties!

I wasn't totally convinced Jake even knew my name until I bribed him to say it to get me to open his candy. Worked like a charm though it was the only time he made eye contact with me all day. I'm guessing he's still a little upset that we're not providing him a male companion. Poor guy.

Who is this girl? I wouldn't recognize her myself if I hadn't taken the picture. Get this. Audrey now hates dresses and the color pink. Go figure.

Not Maddie, though! She seems to be enjoying her pink dress just fine.

I can't wait to see what's in store for our next Easter. I'm imagining an adorable dress, a visit from the Easter bunny, a semi-egg hunt since she won't be walking yet, and a special story from the Jesus Storybook Bible. **Insert internal screams of excitement!

23 Weeks

2010-04-01T09:59:00.003-04:00

This week is shaping up to be pretty productive for baby preparation. Mom and I spent two full days shopping in Atlanta for Charlotte. Pottery Barn Outlet, IKEA, and Baby Gap were by far our best stops.

The first stages of the picture wall (minus a few frames) that will be above her dresser. It's a mix of IKEA and Pottery Barn frames. It's ironic how much planning goes into a display that is supposed to look just thrown together.

My best purchase from the trip was the first purchase - this bookshelf from Pottery Barn Outlet. Between the coupon and the two gift cards Mom and I had, I only paid $90 for this.

I'm so ready to get this nursery decorated that I woke up at 8:00 Wednesday morning and set to decorating, before I had my Bran Flakes, mind you. All I can really work with at this point is the bookshelf, but I'm happy with it so far. After doing Charlotte's first load of laundry, the bottom shelf is now full of her clean, ready-to-wear clothes. The tiny little pants and shirts were so fun to fold!

Andrew and I went to Target and Babies-R-Us yesterday to complete our baby registry. What fun! We found everything we needed. How could you not at Babes-R-Us, though? That place is massive. I'm glad I had already made two trips, or I would have been completely overwhelmed.

Tonight we're moving some of the big pieces out of the office to get ready for a garage sale in two weeks. We're making major progress! Now, if I could only make some decisions about a crib and dresser. The white bookshelf threw everything off. I'm afraid with a white crib and dresser, it will just be too much white. Decisions, decisions!

FYI. A picture does exist for my 23 week of pregnancy. It just will never be made public. Oh my. (Note to self: Spring Break is no excuse for not fixing your hair.)

22 Weeks

2010-03-24T20:41:00.006-04:00

Isn't this Spring weather just delightful?

It inspired Andrew to grill up a nice steak dinner.

Even Milly is begging to go outside more often these days.

And we couldn't help but sit outside to enjoy the sunset in our backyard tonight - for about five minutes before we were off to Marble Slab. Hey, I got a BOGO coupon today and just couldn't restrain myself.

Even more exciting than this weather, though, is the fact that I have decided on the bedding and colors for the nursery. I've actually lost sleep, which is unheard of for me, over my excitement. I just keep thinking about all the little details that will make this room perfect.

Here is the bedding from Pottery Barn. Simple with the clean lines, a touch of whimsy with the polka dots, and beautiful colors without being too bold and bright. C'est parfait!

This chandelier is a must. I'm hoping my favorite thrift shopper might find a cheaper replica. Think you can find one Mama Ese?

I haven't seen this fabric in person but I'm thinking it might complement the colors of the bedding as a pillow for the glider. Still thinking about this one. The brown might not be dark enough.

I love this wall decal to place over the crib.

This fabric is so pretty it just has to go somewhere.

I love this print for the glider. Might be a bit too extravagant, but I'm just dreaming at this point.

Mom found this nursery picture that has given me some inspiration. I definitely want a canvas with Charlotte's monogram like the one in the upper right corner. I'm thinking I can design it myself.

I broke out the maternity capris and open-toed shoes today! Yippee! Makes me feel like we're getting closer and closer to July!

Nursery Furniture

2010-03-21T19:44:00.006-04:00

I guess if one of the worst things I'm worried about these days is decorating a nursery, I should consider myself blessed. Or maybe my priorities are just really out of whack. Anyway, I've spent the last two hours looking at nursery furniture and crib bedding. Here's what I've found so far.

I really love the turned legs on this crib.

And the vintage look of this dresser that could also be a changing table.

Think of that dresser with some beautiful knobs from my favorite store - Anthrolopogie.

But then I worry that maybe Charlotte won't be a girly girl, so would something like this crib be better for her?

Then again I love the look of a sleigh crib, but this one makes me feel a little claustrophobic. If I'm seeming a little neurotic, good. You're finally seeing the real me :)

I'm willing to sacrifice whatever I have to in order to have a glider like this one (but with different fabric, of course). When I think of all the times we'll be rocking our little Charlotte to sleep, I just think it will be worth it to have a really good one.

And I'm back to the girly stuff with this ottoman. I just love the pleated skirt - again, with a different fabric. As for the fabric, well that's another post in itself!

Kinsley Stooksbury made an early appearance this week. Isn't she beautiful? She has the most perfectly defined little lips and nose.

We went to see her at the hospital and then brought dinner to her Mom and Dad tonight just to have an excuse to hold her again! Can't wait to have ours in our arms.

21 Weeks

2010-03-17T21:32:00.004-04:00

And the spending freeze is off! Baby Charlotte's wardrobe is shaping up pretty quickly. I'm sure we'll be getting clothes at our showers, so I'm limiting myself to a few special little outfits for pictures, church, etc.

Mom got her this adorable yellow number at Baby Gap, and I found the perfect complement - a denim jacket on sale at Old Navy! Andrew said I'm going to dress her like a little Mini Me. Sounds about right :)

Andrew and I planned to go to Old Navy Friday night to find her a cute outfit. To be honest, after a long work week and with the rainy, cold weather, I thought maybe we could just stay in and go another time. When I walked in the door, though, Andrew had his hair fixed (Have you noticed he fixes his hair now?!?), and he was dressed and ready to go. So off we went.

This was the first thing I saw, and I couldn't help but imagine a picture of her in the grass at sunset in this sweet white eyelet outfit.

Then I saw this, and it was over. A matching hat! She just had to have it.

I'm already thinking I'll have to reformat the blog to hold bigger pictures because goodness knows that pictures will be taken. Oh my will there be pictures!

Feeling her kick all the time is just the most amazing thing. Today I went to the high school baseball game, and she started kicking like she never has before. I mean nonstop. Of course Andrew loved hearing that. He said today that if the Braves make the playoffs, we're packing her up to take her to her first Braves game. We'll see about that.

At 21 weeks. Just over half-way!

My Turn

2010-03-11T20:14:00.011-05:00

Just to warn you, I'm feeling something of a novel coming in this post. So many things have happened in the last few days that I want to remember forever, and this is my place to document it all. Thanks for following along.

Possibly one of the best moments of the day was reading this in my devotional, Jesus Calling: "I have prepared this day for you with the most tender concern and attention to detail...[Be] on the lookout for all that I am doing. This sounds easy, but it requires a deep level of trust, based on the knowledge that My way is perfect." The first part was great, but the last part kind of made me feel like something was going to go wrong that would require me to trust in His way. Is that some messed up thinking or what? I totally justified my worry through my daily devotional. Anyway, every detail of the day did seem just perfect.

After Andrew and I sat in the waiting room in stressful silence for about 20 minutes, they finally called us back to see this.

And every bit of worry washed away.

We were delighted to see her in 3D. We never expected to fall so in love with her in these few minutes.

This one sealed the deal. Can you believe she is sucking her thumb?

Though her little spine looks skinny, she is in the 83rd percentile weighing in at 13 ounces.

We were so glad to share this special day with the grandmas and Uncle Mattie.

They were pretty excited to be there, too. Even though this is Nana's sixth, it was her first ultrasound.

True to form, Mom had a boy gift and girl gift waiting for us in the car when we walked out of the doctor's office. Just one of those perfectly prepared details.

I really never expected to fall more in love with my husband in the doctor's office.

But I sure did. I completely adore this man.

Here are a few reasons I have fallen more in love with him in the last 24 hours:

His first question to ever ask the doctor was, "When can I feel the baby move?"
He spent hours blogging about our day.
He sent me a text suggesting that Charlotte wear a grape costume for Halloween like I did as a child.
He's already wondering what she will be when she grows up.
He already worried that she might move away.
He has admitted he doesn't stand a chance with a baby girl.
When I asked if he wanted to go to Old Navy tomorrow to shop for her, he said, "That would be a blast!" And there wasn't even a hint of sarcasm. He really is excited about it.

Mom and I did our best to be bargain shoppers waiting in line for an hour at Duck Duck Goose. Once we walked in the store, we realized most of the big items (cribs, strollers, etc.) in good condition were already sold. We walked around for about ten minutes, then realized the check out line was about two hours long, so we hightailed it to the mall. Baby Gap more specifically. We acted like two giddy little girls in there looking at all the adorable clothes. Mom got her the cutest yellow dress for her first Sunday at church. Surprisingly, I didn't spend a penny yesterday. I picked up tons of things, but I think I'm just overwhelmed at all the things we will need that I'm scared to spend any money yet. It's coming though. We've got a trip to Atlanta planned in a few weeks.

Somehow in all my nervousness, I failed to recognize that this would be one of the most exciting days of my life.

We're looking forward to the next most exciting day of our lives. We can't wait to meet our precious little Charlotte.

Dad

2010-03-10T17:46:00.003-05:00

First off, this is Andrew...not Sarah. Don't worry, I didn't hack into her Blogger account. She willingly let me take over the blog for one post, one very important post. As I write, she is on her way to go shopping with her mother, soon to be known as Granna, for the new little one. If you didn't already know, we had a little visit to the doctor scheduled this afternoon. We both had a relatively restless night of sleep in anticipation of finding out the gender of our "Baby McAffry."

We made our way to the hospital, along with both of our mothers, the aforementioned Granna, and the seasoned veteran Na-Na. Sarah's brother, Uncle Matt (Cole, that is...Baby has two Uncle Matts), came along and filled maybe the most vital role of the afternoon: Uncle Photographer. And he seems to be somewhat of a natural. Don't tell Sarah, but, she might have some competition in the form of Matthew C. Photography.

Once the five of us (or six, depending on how you look at it) made our way into the ultrasound room, the technician showed us just about every square inch of our baby. From the head, to the stomach, to the arms and legs (all of which were normal, everything was normal in fact...praise God). Then came the moment we were all waiting for: the gender.

After she went through all the procedural stuff, the technician sort of snuck up on us and said, "and that's a baby girl." Didn't even really take the time to set it up. Actually, she could probably sense my nervousness, as well as Sarah's, and she probably went ahead and revealed the gender to keep me from having a heart attack. There was, immediately, a sense of relief in the room. Not so much from the Grandmothers or Uncle Matt, but from Sarah and myself. We needed to get this out of the way for the sake of our sanity.

In the end, I think the Lord was looking out for us. Looking back, I think I would have been too hard on a first-born boy, had it happened that way. Our new baby girl will be an unbelievable big sister (especially if she takes after her momma, which I'm praying she does). Also, there is a history of superb big sisters on both sides of the family (both of our mothers, Sarah and my sister, Melissa), so we've got that going for us...which is nice.

Anyway, I can't wait to meet my baby girl. It's only four months away! When she gets here, she and I need to agree on a few things: (1) She doesn't date until she's 30, and (2) She takes after her mother.

I love you Charlotte Mae McAffry,

Dad

Tomorrow: The day from Sarah's perspective

Paradigm Shift

2010-03-07T21:21:00.004-05:00

My perspective on pregnancy has changed completely this week. I'm talking like 180 degrees. A paradigm shift. It was great before; don't get me wrong. But I would have used a word like "neat" to describe it. Now even words like "miraculous," "wonderful," and "amazing" seem inadequate. I started feeling significant movement this week. In fact, as I'm typing right now Baby McAffry is kicking under the laptop constantly reminding me of his (or her!) presence. Hi baby! Somehow I couldn't really imagine an actual real live baby in my stomach before, but I can't help but get it now. Our little one makes sure of that :)

The good part of me so wishes that other people could feel it too, but the more selfish part of me kind of relishes the fact that this is something between just me and Baby McAffry. Mother and child. Nobody else. It won't be that way for long, so I'm going to enjoy every little kick I can.

Mama Ese just returned from Disney World. She and Mary Lou found some little goodies for Baby McAffry. I've left them sitting out on the couch for days so I can keep looking at them. The little Donald Duck is so soft that I may or may not have took a nap with it yesterday. The Tigger onesie says "Grrrr" and I think it's just the cutest thing! The Ratatouille inspired cookbook for kids has fun French recipes like Croque Monsieur, faux escargots, and pizza rats. And I can't wait to find out if this baby will be wearing the sweet little pink cap Mary Lou crocheted (or knitted?).

Aren't these the best gifts?

Well, Wednesday is the big day. Boy or girl? Him or her? Pink or blue? I plan to be shopping the night away at Duck Duck Goose Wednesday night, so no guarantees about making the weekly update. I hear the lines are ridiculous but worth it. After I put Mom on a spending freeze weeks ago, she is pretty excited about going with me. We're hoping to find some great deals for sweet little Baby McAffry.

19 Weeks

2010-03-03T20:57:00.003-05:00

Waking up the last four days, my first thought has been to try to feel the baby move. I haven't felt anything since Saturday, but it's not for lack of trying. Despite that, I feel like I'm walking around with a big, goofy, silly smile all day long. I am so enjoying having a little McAffry growing inside. I think about him or her (we'll know in exactly one week!) all day long.

I'm even embracing the new rounder me. I also happen to be enjoying the extra calories - just in time for Girl Scout cookies! In fact, Monday night Andrew cooked a delicious meal of tilapia, squash, zucchini, corn and crescent rolls. No sooner did I finish the last bite than I told him I need more - not like a few more bites but like an entire other meal. So he went to Krystal's. Yes, I ate two Krystals at about 9:30 Monday night, and I don't regret it. Not one bit. For some reason, I seem to be eating pretty normally during the day, but I get really hungry at night.

We're getting closer on the name debate. Maybe, just maybe, we'll have one chosen by our appointment next week.

Things That Make Me Happy

2010-02-28T17:00:00.018-05:00

There are just so many things to mention lately that I figured I might as well make this a series. Look for more of these in the future.

People touching my belly. I never thought I'd say it, but there it is. I love it.
Maternity clothes. I have fully embraced the elastic waist.
My raisin bread snack during 2nd period and my green apple before tennis practice. I look forward to them for about an hour beforehand.
Being called "Mama." Even more, "Little Mama." :)
Having an excuse to wear Andrew's comfy shirts in public.
Pondering whether Baby McAffry is a boy or girl. I love dreaming about what it will be like with either one.
Watching little girls with their dads and imaging Andrew in their place.
That Andrew was with me when I felt the first baby flutter! We were in the car, and I felt two little butterflies. Haven't felt anything since, but I keep thinking about it.
Taking maternity pictures. I've had three baby bump sessions in the last two weeks with another one coming up next weekend. Love those beautiful bellies!

Click here to see more of Rachel's Maternity Pics.

Real Woman of Genius

2010-02-26T11:17:00.002-05:00

My students wrote ode poems this week, and I'm sure you'll understand why this one was my favorite. (Hint: It will help if you read it to the tune of the Real Men of Genius commercials.)

"Ode to a Real Woman of Genius"

Real woman of genius
today we decide
to salute you
Mrs. English teaching fanatic.
Smart Board using
poem reading
getting really excited for class
even if we are
only talking about
dependent and independent clauses.
You're either teaching...
or thinking about teaching.
Oh and how can we forget
the time when
you got the new
Smart Board software and
little board thingy you write on
and were trying so hard to try to work it
when you got totally sidetracked
from all the colors available to write with.

What is that?
Fees are due second Friday of the semester?
Oh! Just bring it tomorrow...
Or the next day...
Or the next day...
So patient she is
but don't you worry about a thing.
You literature queen
I have it right here
OH!
Can I please bring it tomorrow?
And you do all of this
while you are pregnant.

So crack open a nice fresh
book to read.
You deserve it oh carrier of knowledge
And oh sweet baby boy or girl
This is why
I salute you...
Mrs. English teaching fanatic.

18 Weeks

2010-02-24T21:02:00.006-05:00

Today in class I couldn't stop smiling because in exactly two weeks, we will know if it's a boy or girl - and just in time for the major consignment sales! I have officially had my first baby dream. I haven't been dreaming, or at least haven't been remembering them, for a while. This week, though, I dreamt that we were in the ultrasound room with our moms and found out that it was a boy. I had a pretty major happy cry - in the dream.

I can also say I've had my first (okay, maybe not my first) but definitely my most unreasonable emotional breakdown. It was over... are you ready for this? I'm just gonna lay it all out there. Here it goes. Okay, can I really trust you with this information? You promise? It was over...Little Caesar's Crazy Bread!

For real. I'm gonna own it. I totally cried when Andrew told me he ate the last of the crazy bread. I had only eaten two pieces, less than I would even eat not pregnant, and he had finished the rest of it. What? You mean his pregnant wife specifically wanted crazy bread, and he only allowed her two pieces of the deliciously soft, buttery, garlicky bread - the perfect accompaniment to any meal? Yes, he sure did. And I cried about it. I guess I got all the crazy I needed from the crazy bread. Maybe it was best I stopped at two. Though I likely won't stop there next time :)

I don't know when this turned into a food blog, but when I found this granola bar recipe I had to try it immediately. Highly recommend it and you can modify it with whatever you have in your pantry.

18 Weeks. Still no movement. I'm waiting not so patiently.

Don't miss Mom's post on becoming a grandmother. I'm thinking it would be a great series, right along with Why I Love 6th Graders.

Maternity Pics

2010-02-21T21:47:00.003-05:00

I got to try out my new studio backdrops yesterday during Kim's maternity session. Like most of my photography purchases, it has only added to the list of business needs. Now I need to work on getting some more lighting equipment. It's a never-ending list that I must constantly evaluate for wants versus needs. Seems like more and more they are wants - not needs. I've been wanting this crazy expensive camera bag for over year, and I just can't justify it as anything other than a want. It's still on the list though :)

This was the first of four maternity sessions in three weeks. I'm loving the baby bumps! Click here for more.

17 Weeks

2010-02-17T21:58:00.003-05:00

With our unexpected day off on Monday, I found myself in the kitchen trying to use up some of the things in our pantry.

And what could be better than blueberry scones?

How about blueberry scones with lemon glaze? Mmmmm.

My attempt to use the loaf of French bread before it went bad (to make french toast sandwiches) wasn't as cost-effective. Andrew ended up running to the grocery for cream cheese and apricot preserves.

Luckily Dad whipped up some fruit salad to balance out all those sweets.

Feeling a little under the weather at 17 weeks and wondering why there isn't more research about medications' effect on pregnancy.

We had a checkup today and thankfully were able to hear the heartbeat on the first try. Baby McAffry's heart was going strong at 145 beats per minutes. I've heard this from others, but it really did sound like a galloping horse. In exactly three weeks we will have the all-important gender-revealing ultrasound. Both grandmas are going with us, and we can't wait to experience that moment with them!

The In Between

2010-02-14T17:09:00.006-05:00

Andrew and I celebrated Valentine's Day on Friday by going to see, um, Valentine's Day. Original, I know :) We met Kenny and Angelina at the theater, stopped by Coffee and Chocolate on our way out, then headed to our house to enjoy our treats. I promptly fell asleep immediately after finishing my cannoli. Probably not the best idea to try to stay up late after an actual five day work week.

Matt was my trial subject for the backdrop for my studio - ahem, that is, my parent's basement.

We're working with what we've got here at Sarah C. Photography.

Milly pretty much denied looking at me even after I used all the cue words: who's here?, want a treat?, you ready? Nothing.

Big day celebration already done, we were free to spend the afternoon doing one of our favorite things: lounging at Mom and Dads. (BTW, the headless woman is Matt's girlfriend, Amy, not that you would confuse my body with hers these days.)

Just a typical Sunday at Casa Cole.

I had something of an epiphany this week about life. Okay, maybe that's a little dramatic. Anyway, I've realized that the special moments in life aren't the big celebrations (i.e. Valentine's Day, birthdays, Christmas, etc.) It's the in between that matters most - the talks around the dinner table, the Sunday naps, the goodbyes in the morning. Those are the moments that make a life unique, memorable. I'm glad this revelation hit me before Baby McAffry arrives. Lounging in the bed on Saturday mornings, playing with Tupperware containers in the floor, reading bedtime stories at night - those are the moments I'm most looking forward to. The moments in between.

Props to Jasmine Star for creating the term: the in between.

Let the Good Times Roll

2010-02-10T20:17:00.006-05:00

Milly says "Bonjour" to you blog readers. Don't you think her scarf has a little Parisian flair? We love our groomer, Karen.

We are loving life in the McAffry house these days. Yesterday, Andrew stopped the car on our way out of the subdivision, looked me in the eye, and said, "I love my life." We're both feeling pretty good these days - in love with each other, excited about the future, and loving Baby McAffry more and more every day.

This week we started being more intentional about spending time together. We cook dinner, eat, and wash dishes together in the kitchen. Sounds simple, but it has already had a major impact on the way we talk to each other. I have to agree with Papaw Jim who said tonight, "The family that eats together stays together." We were so good about doing this when we were newlyweds but somehow slacked off. With tennis season starting next week, we will have to work a little harder to make this happen, but it will be so worth it.

Just a little proof that it ain't all sweets and chocolate round here. You may be thinking it looks like a pretty boring salad, but that's Olive Garden dressing. It needs nothing else.

Tonight's dinner: tilapia in lemon-butter sauce, roasted asparagus and a baked sweet potato.

Two of my favorites.

At 16 weeks and feeling good. Doctor visit in a week, but no ultrasound. Just a regular checkup.

How Bad Could That Be?

2010-02-09T21:10:00.005-05:00

This post is pure evidence that I am pregnant and past the sick phase. I am officially enjoying food again. Just a disclaimer: I have been eating healthy things, too. It's just that apples, bananas, and zucchini aren't photo worthy.

On tonight's episode Ina Garten made brownie pudding for her and Jeffrey's 40th anniversary.

I immediately walked to the kitchen to try it myself. Watching her scoop out the not-quite-done-on-the-inside yet crunchy-on-the-outside brownie was just more than I could handle. I cooked them 15 minutes less than she recommended, but it was still too much. With a scoop of vanilla ice cream, though, it was just right. If you're an Ina fan, you know that she says, "How bad could that be?" nearly every episode. Andrew and I laugh every time.

One of our new staples in the weekly menu is a bacon, egg, and cheese sandwich.

The best part (well, other than the freshly shredded sharp cheddar, the thick Texas toast, the Eggland's Best eggs, and the bacon-that-doesn't-make-your-house-stink-for-days) is that Andrew is in charge of this meal. I don't have to lift a finger, and in minutes I'm served with a warm, tasty sandwich for dinner. This pregnancy thing is really starting to work out well for me.

It may not look like it, but this is actually healthy.

This blueberry coffee cake is made with whole wheat flour, yogurt, only 2 tablespoons of butter and oil and just a trace of sugar.

Which totally gave me permission to eat a few servings today.

I made this dessert pizza for Mom's birthday a few weeks ago.

With a few individual servings for me:)

Don't Miss This

2010-02-07T22:06:00.002-05:00

I'm sure many of you have seen this already, but for those of you who haven't, you don't want to miss this. Greg is the worship pastor at our church, and he and his family have been in the adoption process for two years. Yesterday, in Taiwan, they were united with their daughter, Claire, for the first time. This video shows some of the highlights of their first day together.

I'm honored to be photographing their homecoming at the airport next Sunday so prepare to see more pictures of this sweet girl. Here is a link to their adoption blog if you want to read more.

15 Weeks

2010-02-03T20:03:00.005-05:00

Pregnancy Update: 15 Weeks

Morning Sickness: MIA for three weeks now

Energy: much better but still out of breath sometimes for no good reason

Exercise: walking for 45 minutes 5 days a week

Baby Bump: learning to embrace it and love it more every day

Cravings: lots of water, fruit, salad, lemon cake, Sonic corndogs - strange

Aversions: the list is getting smaller - since my last post I have eaten everything that was on my aversions list

Baby Names: girl name confirmed, no progress on boy names

Maternity Clothes: so comfortable I may never go back

Mama McAffry: back to enjoying some of my favorite hobbies like baking, reading and exercising; thinking more and more about holding an actual baby in my arms; looking forward to feeling movement; annoyed at websites that say, "you have probably gained five pounds by now" when I have clearly gained double

Baby McAffry: the size of an orange - 4 inches long

Wondering how long it's going to take for the belly to reach the doorknob. Hmm.

Things That Make Me Happy

2010-01-31T17:25:00.008-05:00

**Post idea stolen with advance warning to my dear mother.

1. Milly wearing socks.

2. My growing belly.

3. Andrew taking forever to tell me goodbye every time I walk out the door.

4. Andrew's forearms.

5. Sunless tanner.

6. Baking. I missed it for about three months.

7. Buying maternity clothes on ebay.

8. Crepes.

9. Mama Ese's fruit salad. And Dad makes a pretty good copy.

10. Sunday lunches with the family.

11. Cinnamon raisin bread everyday during 2nd period.

12. Skinny jeans and boots.

13. Searching the internet about everything baby.

14. My blanket.

15. My students.

16. Stretchy pants.

17. Looking for baby furniture on Craigslist.

18. Talking with Andrew about parenting.

19. My Chi hair straightener.

20. Walking with Rachel during 4th period.

21. Specialized baking gadgets.

22. Scarves that complete an outfit.

23. Talking/negotiating about baby names.

24. The new Steve Fee album.

25. Bran flakes with raisins.

Okay, one more. 26. I'll say it again. Those lines.

Snowed-In

2010-01-30T11:48:00.003-05:00

After reading this article about the French Market in Knoxville, I have been craving crepes like crazy. Afraid to get out in this weather though, I decided to whip up some of my own for breakfast. You may think this looks more like a dessert recipe, but you know, I'm pregnant. It's been a good excuse for many things lately, so I might as well use it here too.

This recipe is perfect for being snowed-in because it only uses ingredient you have on hand at all times. It turned out to be the best crepe recipe I have ever used - and I have tried my fair share of crepe recipes :)

Strawberries are my topping of choice, but if your great-grandmother doesn't keep you stocked, you can use anything you like - bananas, preserves, caramel sauce, fresh whipped cream. You can, of course, venture into the savory fillings such as cheese, spinach, or salmon, but I just can't get away from the perfect combination of strawberries and nutella.

Set yourself up a little crepe station and start assembling.

See how they get a little crispy and roll up on the edges? Perfection.

This is always my dilemma - how to fold the crepe? The crepe stands in Paris fold them in half and then into thirds but our weren't big enough for that so Andrew got something of a crepe sampler platter.

I decided to stick with the fold-in-half method because it makes them seem bigger and you feel like you're eating more. And that's what it's all about after all.

It was quite an adventure sending Milly out into the snow this morning.

It may look like she was frolicking in the snow, but really she was so mad about her straight-from-Paris socks that she was walking around with stiff legs.

She definitely gave me the cold shoulder.

I'm sure my Denver family thinks it pretty funny that we call two inches being snowed-in, but even if we could actually get out, I love the idea of being holed up at home.

I'm looking forward to a day of reading, cooking, watching TV, and even - dare I say it? - watching a Lifetime movie or two. It's my pregnancy guilty pleasure. Okay, that and the crepes for breakfast.

14 Weeks

2010-01-27T20:58:00.003-05:00

Today marks the 14 week milestone. Why a milestone you may ask? Well, it means I'm entering the second trimester - the one so many people kept reassuring me would bring better times. And yes, it's true! I feel like a brand new woman - no nausea in the past few days and much more energy. I must admit I was a little disappointed that I wasn't enjoying pregnancy. Really it makes a girl feel like a failure in the first stages of motherhood.

No, wait. That was something else. I have officially experienced my first mom failure. You remember seeing that first ultrasound image, the one where the baby just looked like a peanut? The first ever picture of my first ever baby? Yeah, well I lost it. Correction - I lost them! We had two copies, and we lost both!

I vividly remember using it as a bookmark in a book I was reading from the library. I was only doing that to keep it from getting bent in my purse. Well, when I realized I couldn't find it, I headed straight to the library to see if it was still in the book I was reading called Feed the Belly. Turns out the book has been checked out. I can only hope this other mother-to-be will know how important that picture is and bring it back. I can't tell you how humiliating it was to explain to the librarian that I had lost the very first picture of my child. Total failure. I'm still holding out hope that it will turn up around here somewhere.

Ah, the comfort of a dress. I think I'll be purchasing quite a few of these to carry me through the pregnancy :)

Andrew's 26th

2010-01-24T18:40:00.003-05:00

Somehow Andrew's birthday celebration lasted all weekend. It began with a spontaneous trip to Big Ed's on Thursday, then a boys' night on Friday, dinner at his parents Saturday and lunch with my family today. Whew! Everybody let him pick the menu so we had Matt and Morgan's special recipe spaghetti and meatballs Saturday and Mom's roast and potatoes today. For dessert I brought his favorites: banana pudding and caramel pie.

Caramel pie makes a much prettier picture than the banana pudding that just looked like yellow mush. No worries, though, it tasted just fine.

One-fourth of the pie is lacking pecans per Andrew's request. I hope he didn't get too used to this kind of special treatment. Life goes back to normal tomorrow, Dear.

Here he is with two of his birthday gifts - a Braves onesie (okay, not technically for him but he loved it) and a Daddy diaper bag.

Yesterday, I was lucky enough to photograph the homecoming for one of the Haitian girls that arrived in Knoxville yesterday. Benita was adopted by one of the teachers at our school, so I offered to tag along with my ridiculously large equipment. I never realized how cumbersome it was until yesterday in a space so full of people that you could barely move. It was such an amazing experience to see those girls finally home with the families that have hoped for so long. Last night they slept under a roof for the first time in 11 days. I can't imagine the emotional roller coaster these parents have undergone not only dealing with adoption paperwork, but also because of the earthquake.

Benita's smile yesterday seemed to be permanently plastered on her sweet face. In nearly every picture you'll see she was wrapped up in the arms of one of her new family members. In fact, I had to ask her for a picture by herself because I wasn't able to snap one otherwise :) If you have about ten minutes to spare, watch this video.

Benita's Homecoming from Sarah McAffry on Vimeo.

Check out the photo blog for more pictures.

Neglect

2010-01-20T18:54:00.000-05:00

With all the Baby Mac coverage recently, Milly has been feeling a bit neglected.

She gave us quite a scare last Friday. When I got home, she started her breathing problem. I wasn't worried at first because it happens pretty often - especially when she gets excited. Usually we can just pick her up, and she will calm down within a few seconds. This time, however, after Andrew and I both tried soothing her for several minutes, she continued. We took her in right away for an emergency doctor visit. Though she stopped about halfway to the vet, Dr. Hilla, whom I highly recommend at Callahan Animal Hospital, diagnosed her right away. Her strange gasping/snorting sound is apparently called a reverse sneeze. He assured us that it was nothing to worry about. Maybe not, but when your dog can hardly breathe for about five minutes, it's enough to scare you pretty good.

Jury's still out on how Milly will react to the new addition.

Unexpected Surprise

2010-01-19T20:32:00.002-05:00

We went to the doctor today hoping to hear the heartbeat. Instead, we actually had an ultrasound. The only catch was that we had to wait for about 45 minutes wondering why we couldn't hear the heartbeat from the Doppler. I guess we can check that off as our first major parenting scare. They kept assuring us it was nothing to worry about, so we just tried not to think about it.

After the 45 minutes of waiting, our minds were quickly put at ease. As soon as the ultrasound technician put the wand on my stomach, we immediately saw the baby moving. She stretched her back out; I guess she's not a fan of the ultrasound lady pressing all over her. (I'm using "she" because the ultrasound technician did.) Incidentally, I have started thinking it's a girl lately though I've always thought it sounds a little hokey to make guesses like that.

Stats: Heart rate 159 beats per minute and 7 centimeters long.

We don't have a picture of it, but we actually got to see a hand - and all five fingers!

I've been reading all the websites and books that tell you about the baby's progress, but this just made it so real. Just look at that ultrasound. She already has facial features and the cutest little profile! Only 8 more weeks until we find out if "she" is really a she.

12.5 Weeks

2010-01-18T17:32:00.008-05:00

Like many of you, I have been glued to CNN's coverage of the tragedy in Haiti.

It's really not helping my slight crush on Andrerson Cooper,

or Sanjay Gupta for that matter.

Gupta was helicoptered to an aircraft carrier to perform brain surgery on a 12 year old girl when they could find no other neurosurgeons in the country.

He has even skipped out on his CNN show because he couldn't tear himself away from the field. Quoted from his Twitter feed, "Yes, I am a reporter, but I am a doctor first." Wow. When is this guy running for President? He has my vote any day. Make sure to click the link to the right to donate to Compassion's Haiti Fund to help however you can.

I'm so proud of my first period class. We read an article from the News-Sentinel about one of the teachers at our school who is in the process of adopting from Haiti, and they wanted to do something to help the orphanage where her little girl is staying. This week we'll be taking a little class time to assemble ribbons and make posters for their fundraiser. Somehow I think that might be a little more memorable than the pronoun antecedent agreement we had planned :)

I've been on a baking hiatus lately, but I got some inspiration today to make some pound cake.

I tried a new recipe from the Williams Sonoma Desserts Cookbook. Those things are foolproof. I highly recommend all of their cookbooks. BTW, you're lucky you got a picture of this. It was eaten pretty swiftly after I not-so-gingerly set the camera down.

Not sure if that's the pound cake or the nearly peach-sized baby showing. We're headed to the doctor tomorrow and will hopefully get to hear the heartbeat!

Best Movie Lines Ever

2010-01-12T20:29:00.000-05:00

Return to Me

Bob Rueland: I miss Elizabeth. I'll always miss her. But I ache for Grace.

It's like a dagger to the heart every time I hear him utter that line. The word ache is just so unexpected and so powerful. Whew.

Love Actually

[neither understands the other's language]
Jamie: [in English] It's my favorite time of day, driving you.
Aurelia: [in Portuguese] It's the saddest part of my day, leaving you.

Oh, the irony! I just love all the story lines in this movie, but this couple is my favorite vignette by far. Their inability to communicate is so endearing. So endearing, in fact, that I have to share another one.

Jamie: You learned English?
Aurelia: Just in cases.

I don't know how that extra 's' on the word case that makes this one of the most tender and sweet moments in the movie, but these writers were brilliant.

The Shawshank Redemption

[last lines]
Red: [narrating] I find I'm so excited, I can barely sit still or hold a thought in my head. I think it's the excitement only a free man can feel, a free man at the start of a long journey whose conclusion is uncertain. I hope I can make it across the border. I hope to see my friend, and shake his hand. I hope the Pacific is as blue as it has been in my dreams. I hope.

This movie is such a beautiful illustration of the resiliency of the human spirit.

The Godfather

Don Corleone: Because a man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man.

Stole this one from Andrew. How great is it that this is my husband's favorite movie line?

Steel Magnolias

Truvy: Laughter through tears is my favorite emotion.

I have to agree with you Truvy.

When Harry Met Sally

Harry Burns: There are two kinds of women: high maintenance and low maintenance.

Sally Albright: Which one am I?
Harry Burns: You're the worst kind; you're high maintenance but you think you're low maintenance.

I've heard I might suffer from the same delusion.

This task was actually a little more complicated than I thought it would be. Turns out, some of the best movie lines aren't entirely appropriate for publishing. Now it's your turn. Share one of your faves.

A Bientot Madame

2010-01-10T20:59:00.006-05:00

Today we said au revoir - no, that's a bientot (She refuses to say "goodbye", only "see you soon.")- to one of the best educators to walk the halls of our school. In true Madame Taylor style, she didn't want a retirement party. Instead we celebrated her 60th birthday at Bistro by the Bijou. They shut down the restaurant just for her, and we packed the house. After sitting in her French class for four years and teaching down the hall from her for another four, I felt a little out of sorts last week without her. In fact, I texted her just hours after school started Monday to tell her I already missed her. In reality, she isn't even fully retired. She is teaching two classes at another local high school as a Distinguished Professional - a grant from the state. Add to that the evening classes she teaches at Pellissippi, and I think you still have a full-time teacher. She's one of the rare few that just can't imagine her life outside the classroom. I pray I will still have that passion and dedication when I am in her place.

Mme, I don't know how we'll make it without you. Guess I'll just have to take another tour around the world with you to get some quality time.

Pregnancy Update - 11.5 Weeks

Morning Sickness - correction - All-Day Sickness: getting better
Energy: returning just in time for second semester
Baby Bump: making its appearance earlier than expected
Cravings: fruit, juice, smoothies, bagels, salads, carbs, carbs, carbs
Aversions: fish, shrimp, and most meat
Baby Names: still under negotiation
Clothing: thank goodness for the rubber band trick
Sniffer: still can't find the source of the stinky smell in my house but I did smell the most delicious glass of red wine today - and I don't even like red wine
Grandparents: wearing Grandpa hats and being put on spending restriction
Baby McAffry: the size of a large lime - and that statement alone makes all the digestion, appetite, and weight issues beyond worth it

Baby Mac's First Presents

2010-01-03T18:52:00.000-05:00

Well, I guess this one is actually for me, but how cute is this diaper bag? And the monogram? Love it. Thank you Jett Family.

I've heard many people speak well of this children's bible, so we picked up a copy at Andrew Peterson's concert at the Ryman. I treasure my memories of bedtime stories with my parents, and I just can't wait to snuggle up with our kids to read them to sleep.

Looks like we have plenty of books to choose from. When you don't know the gender, books are always a safe bet. This whole stack is from Mom. She's a bit excited.

And maybe my best Christmas gift this year. Andrew's Mom gave me these overalls that Andrew wore as a baby. I'm tearing up just thinking about it. I think she might have been getting me back; I usually go for the sentimental gifts that make her cry. Well, I definitely had a little cry when I opened these. Can't wait to see you in these, Baby McAffry.

Christmas Party

2010-01-02T18:54:00.007-05:00

Our annual Christmas get-together with our high school buds was such a blast. Andrew wanted to do hors d'oeuvres instead of a meal so hors d'oeuvres it was.

On the Menu:

Homemade Potato Skins
Apple, Ham and Swiss Sandwiches (Trust me. They're delicious. Thanks Greg and Jessica for letting me steal your recipe!)
Apples and Dip
Aubrey's Spinach Dip (Give me a break here. I'm tired and pregnant.)
Pigs in a Blanket (a la Kenny)
Sausage Balls (a la Kenny)
Homemade Cookies and Cream Ice Cream with Chocolate Cake and Hot Fudge
Punch and Wassail

For the first time in my life, I actually put people to work when they arrived. Usually people walk in, the food is ready, and we eat. This time I totally underestimated the time it would take to make the potato skins, so everybody had a job putting them together. I think it was worth it though. They disappeared pretty fast :)

On to the best part of the evening - Game time!

The boys started out with some success.

We girls swiftly robbed them of that. Andrew may have helped us out with that when he couldn't hum the tune of Pink Panther. It was actually kind of painful to watch; I really wanted to help him!

After all that intensity, we took a brief break to chat and catch up. Half of the couples live out of town, so we had a lot of talking to do.

A McAffry Game Night just wouldn't be complete without a round of Catchphrase. Luke always makes sure of that.

I love these people so much. They have brought much joy to our lives and marriage. Can't wait for next year.

Turning 26

2009-12-29T19:42:00.000-05:00

We have decided to make our trip to see Behold the Lamb of God at the Ryman an annual one - that is until it hit us that next year it might be a bit more difficult to manage :) We'll just have to see how that works out, won't we? It is such a wonderful way to celebrate my birthday and the Christmas season all at once.

We checked in at the Union Station Hotel just before hitting the town.

The lobby of this place is unbelievable. Another one of those perks of being a teacher is getting a discount at hotels on the historic register.

We dined at the Spaghetti Factory, just like last year, then walked to the Ryman. Let me just say, it's a good thing that place has so much history because their wooden pews ain't so comfy. The show makes the constant rear-shifting worth it though. The music was again breathtaking, awe-inspiring, and refreshing. Andrew Peterson's awkward introductions always make for some good laughs too. I was so excited to see Leigh Nash (of Sixpence None the Richer) on the program, but when she tried to sing along and didn't even know the words, I was flabbergasted. What disrespect! It almost distracted me so much that I couldn't enjoy the final song, but Jill Phillips' soul-piercing harmonies quickly brought me back. Thanks, Jill. Hope to see the whole crew again next year!

Before leaving town on Friday, we made a quick (well, I sure tried to make it quick) stop at Anthropologie and the Mall at Green Hills. I discovered my new favorite and much too expensive children's clothing store - Janie and Jack. At least I can find it on ebay! Of course, we couldn't leave town without dropping by the Cheesecake Factory either. Their cobb salad is the best. Well, that and their strawberry cheesecake.

This entire long weekend felt just like a repeat of last year because we had a Christmas party with our small group the day after we returned from Nashville - on my birthday - just like last year.

It really was a miserable time. Can you tell?

The ladies are a bit easier to gather for a photo.

Turning 26 this year felt pretty good - well, besides the persistent nausea. But other than that, it was a fun weekend surrounded by all my favorites. Thanks everyone!

Madelyn's Date Night

2009-12-28T19:44:00.012-05:00

Looks like we have a track record for skipping out on birthday parties this year, but I missed Maddie's celebration at Chucky Cheese due to a photo shoot so we took her out for a date night instead.

First stop: Target. She got to pick out her own presents. Easy enough.

She ended up with a massive Princess activity book, a regular book, and her favorite - the $2 microphone.

Funny side story. We also picked up a gift for a Dirty Santa while we were there. Though we didn't realize it until the following night on our way to the Dirty Santa exchange, we left the gift in Maddie's bag. No biggie, we thought, we'll just drive over and pick it up. Trouble was, Maddie thought the Punkie Brewster DVD was hers, so they opened it up and watched it the night before. Apparently she is now a Punkie Brewster fan; we just couldn't bear taking it away from her, so we picked up a can of Spam on the way to the party instead. No harm, no foul :)

And what birthday date would be complete without a little ice cream?

I am proud to have given Maddie her first Marble Slab experience. And let it be noted that I had none. This pregnancy thing is really messing with me!

Here's a link to the reason I missed the party :)

Country Bumpkins

2009-12-06T21:16:00.004-05:00

Kim, Brooke, Me, Angelina, Rachel

We headed out Friday evening for a whirlwind weekend of shopping. What we didn't know is that our lodging would really be the highlight of the trip. Brooke has a family connection to the CEO of Earthlink who happens to own a lovely place in Park Place on Peachtree (that he often leaves vacant). Every inch of this place was decorated for Christmas - the table setting, the towels in the bathrooms, the glass containers on the bookshelves. It was a study in understated elegance.

We, on the other hand, were quite the opposite. Between valets and doormen, men coming to unlock the apartment and carry our bags, we didn't know what to do with ourselves. By Sunday, they all realized we would just rather do it ourselves (and not fork over the $3), and they quit trying to do everything for us. They sure were nice, but that life is just not for us. I think we all agreed that we prefer the portion God has given us in little old Powell, Tennessee. We looked only a bit conspicuous in this building where Elton John currently owns an apartment and where Oprah just recently sold hers.

Thanks, Rolla, for letting us country bumpkins invade your penthouse suite. Too bad I didn't snap a picture of the sunrise this morning. Incredible.

The shopping was a bit more challenging this year with my persistent nausea. I haven't actually gotten sick (thank goodness!), but for the last week, if I'm not sleeping or eating, I feel sick. Seems like a cure would be to snack lightly throughout the day, but food is just not appealing right now. I've had pizza four times in the last week because it's often the only thing I can imagine eating. I should mention that I did okay last night at Pappasito's though :) I've heard

some women tell me it will only last a few more weeks while another told me today that because I get car sick, it will last the entire nine months! It's all good though. When I imagine actually holding a baby in my arms in July, none of this stuff in between seems to matter.

The other highlight of the weekend was this morning's service at Buckhead Church.

Todd Fields and the rest of the band, choir, and orchestra opened with a medley of Christmas carols sang to the arrangement of some U2, Coldplay, and Justin Timberlake. It was nothing short of incredible. God has gifted those people with some serious talent and creativity. I must admit that many Christmas songs had become somewhat ritualistic for me, but not today. I was moved. And the rest of the auditorium was moved to their feet for a standing ovation. Thank you Buckhead Church for the fresh, poignant insight into the Christmas season.

ATL

2009-12-03T22:28:00.004-05:00

Tomorrow I'm headed to Atlanta for the annual Christmas shopping trip. This will be mine and Angelina's third trip, but we've got some novices joining us this time. Kim, Rach, and Brooke are in for some marathon shopping and fantastic eating. Pappasito's here we come! Actually, I hope I can handle the Mexican deliciousness. As of right now my diet is consisting mostly of unsalted saltines (how's that for an oxymoron?) and bran flakes. Oh, and Smoothie King. Thanks, Mom!

Since I've actually finished all of my Christmas shopping, I'm focusing on filling out Andrew's wardrobe and getting myself some new winter items. Again, thanks Mom! She so graciously allows us to buy our own Christmas presents, she pays us back, and she wraps them for us to open on Christmas Eve. She's a good one!

I'm most excited about heading to Anthropologie. Girls, just to warn you, I could spend at least an hour in that dressing room. We'll definitely need to split up. I've got my heart set on this top.

But with its hefty price tag I keep thinking, "That would almost buy a bedding set for a crib." Wow, this motherhood thing really changes everything doesn't it? :)

We Have a Heartbeat!

2009-12-01T20:07:00.005-05:00

What we learned at today's ultrasound:

I'm 5 weeks 6 days.
The heartbeat started yesterday. Ah-mazing.
The heartbeat was 113 beats per minute - too early for the gender test. Any thoughts on whether or not it's true that girls' heartbeats are faster?
Baby McAffry measured at 3 millimeters. So unbelievably tiny!
My due date is July 28. Andrew is already worried about deciding to send Baby Mc to kindergarten at 4 or 5 years old. Guess we will have time to figure that out :)

The first of a multitude of pictures to come!

Out of the Closet

2009-11-30T21:36:00.005-05:00

I think it's about time to admit that I've been hiding something. No, really - hiding it in the back of my guest bedroom closet. Here goes. Over the last few years I have collected a few items in preparation for Baby McAffry. They were all great deals and were just too cute to resist.

Can't you just imagine snuggling with a tiny baby in this so soft Laura Ashley onesie? And how perfect is it that with the baby coming in the summer, the size should be just right?

If memory serves me correctly, Mom and I got this while buying Christmas gifts for all the baby girls born in our family last year. It's Ralph Lauren - our favorite!

This one just might be my favorite. When Andrew and I were in Charleston just months after being married, I found this. He was a little hesitant, but just like he accepted all my Bride's magazines when we were dating, he allowed it.

Don't take this sampling of clothes to mean I only want a girl. In fact, I would love to have a boy first. It's just that girls are more fun to buy for! I know many couples won't admit to a preference for a boy or a girl, but you know we all have them. Of course, we will be delighted either way, but there it is. I said it. It's out of the closet. Really though, I'm so anxious to hear a heartbeat tomorrow that nothing else really matters.

The Big News

2009-11-29T18:06:00.007-05:00

You may have noticed the blog silence here at The Handwriting on the Wall as of late. It's not that I didn't have anything to say; it's just that everything seemed insignificant until I could say this. After five years of marriage, Andrew and I are excited to announce that this party of two is about to become a party of three. We're going to be parents!

As excited as we were to find out, we were almost as excited to tell my parents. Check out this video to see the play by play.

Check this link if the video above doesn't work.

What did Mom and I do immediately after sharing the good news? Go to Target of course!

I'm so glad we didn't run into anybody we knew because our giddy faces would have given us away. We had to buy something gender neutral, so we went with the multifunctional Boppy. The lady at the cash register asked if we needed a gift receipt, and we both couldn't stop giggling. "No, we don't need a gift receipt. It's for us!"

I can't wait to see this Dad in action.

Me on the day of the first ultrasound.

Mom brought me a Pregnancy Survival Kit complete with Tums, chocolate, and baby lotion - just to get used to the baby smell. :)

With the cookies, doughnuts, and brownies Mama Ese has been bringing me, I might be needing this a little sooner than expected. Thanks, Rachel!

My next ultrasound on Tuesday should provide me with a more definitive due date. I look forward to journaling Baby McAffry's development with you all.

Things have been busy over at the Sarah C. Photography blog. Click here to check it out.

Maybe Tomorrow

2009-11-15T22:10:00.002-05:00

While there are some fun things to report, I'm not feeling motivated to do it tonight. Maybe tomorrow. For now, my full attention will be devoted to Brothers & Sisters - and the fabulous French guest star. Ooh la la!

Almost Everything

2009-11-08T19:38:00.010-05:00

Though our plans were almost blown, Andrew and I took headed to the mountains to take a picnic. He packed some yummy PB&Js, some chips, etc. Can you tell by the picture below where this is going?

Cut us some slack. We passed three of them on our drive up Chapman Highway. We finally succumbed once we hit Pigeon Forge.

We actually never really made it to the mountains. Once we had the buttery, garlicky, hot Crazy Bread in the car, we didn't exactly want to wait through the Gatlinburg traffic to get to the picnic area.

So we found a sweet spot by the river near the Apple Barn.

And my new lens lets us take the cliche self-portrait.

We had one minor mishap during the ride. Mostly we had great conversation talking about the future and how we love almost everything about each other. :) While on the romantic drive through South Knoxville, we began noticing a cigarette smell in our car. The person next to us at the stoplight was smoking so we huffed and thought it would disappear soon. Minutes later the smell was actually getting worse. We spent much of the drive sticking our heads out the window and spraying air freshener.

Andrew even lifted the hood thinking a cigarette had gotten in there somehow. No luck. We both ended up smelling like a lit up Marlboro - uh - lets make that a Virginia Slim.

With Andrew not willing to miss any of the game, we turned around and headed for home.

But not before a quick stop at Five Oaks!

I would like to record the fact that we went shopping for some pants for Andrew - and we left with only some pants for Andrew. I didn't even enter a dressing room. I barely even looked over the women's section. Guess I'm saving it all for the annual Atlanta trip coming in a few weeks.

In the past I've totally felt like a poser. An English teacher pretending to be a photographer. However, on my last two sessions, I've shot full manual. I've known I needed to for a while, but was scared to take the leap. Add to that my new L series Canon 24-70/2.8 lens and you have a real photographer. Yes, I'm going to claim it and own it. I am a photographer.

Thanks Cox family for being my guinea pigs for the new lens! Click here to see more.

Audrey B.

2009-11-03T20:16:00.005-05:00

Had a fun session with Audrey (no, not that Audrey) this weekend. Her little outfits were just adorable! Totally reminded me of what my Mom would dress a little girl in - classic and traditional yet still trendy.

Isn't her skin just perfection? Click here to see more.

Fruit Salad

2009-11-01T20:50:00.007-05:00

When most people are sick, I hear they lose their appetite and settle for some form of Campbell's soup. I, however, don't recall ever losing my appetite while being sick. Mom called Thursday to see if I wanted something other than what she had already planned to make that night. What had you planned, I asked. Taco salad, she responded. Then taco salad it is, I proclaimed. No chicken noodle soup needed here. In addition to the most delicious taco salad I've ever had, I supplemented with ice cream. Lots and lots of ice cream.

Then, Saturday, Mama Ese came through with the best cure for all illness - fruit salad. This is no typical fruit salad; this stuff takes time and is made with love. It's full of oranges, pineapple, mandarin oranges and bananas. I should get the recipe, but I love the feeling I get knowing that somebody has taken so much time to cut up the fruit and squeeze all the juices by hand. Maybe it's best if it remains a mystery.

I seem to have developed a slight obsession with ebay while I was resting up - J. Crew boots, Anthropologie jewelry, Longchamp bags are just a few of the most recent searches. I have a bad habit of adding things to my watch list and not ever bidding though. I guess it's the equivalent of window shopping from my laptop. I'm feeling an actual bid coming on for one of those Anthropologie bracelets. See ya!

Laid Out

2009-10-29T20:10:00.004-04:00

Today marks the first day in four years that I have actually used an unplanned sick day. I've used a few for being out of town, but today I woke up feeling awful but not willing to change my lesson plans for a substitute, so I went in anyway. Halfway through first period, realizing things were going downhill fast, I called for a sub for the second half of the day. My three hour nap helped give me a little strength and now I'm feeling much better, though it seems I'm always better at night. We'll see what tomorrow morning brings.

While I'm resting up, I decided I'd try to redeem myself from the whole Nebraska Patriots thing, so I'm watching the World Series with Andrew. Besides calling Pedro Martinez "Manny" as in Ramirez, things are going well so far. Too bad I already missed the highlight of the game - John Legend singing the National Anthem. Honestly, it's going to take some serious restraint to keep from using the sick card to get Andrew to let me watch Grey's Anatomy and Real Housewives tonight. (My apologies about that sentence. I just don't have time to deal with fixing all those infinitives. Gotta ask Andrew who we're rooting for!)

Natural Cleaning Solutions

2009-10-25T21:53:00.001-04:00

Andrew has some exciting stuff in the works. He's starting a new business, Natural Cleaning Solutions: Green Cleaning for Home and Office using all natural, eco-friendly products. If that sounded like a commercial, good. It was supposed to! If you or someone you know needs some cleaning done, give Andrew a shout.

This flyer may be appearing in a mailbox near you. And how about that logo? Copied and pasted from istockphoto by yours truly.

I spent today at the Norris Grist Mill crawling over about ten other photographers. People were practically waiting in line to take pictures on this gorgeous autumn day.

This session with the Kara and Larry was delightful - they're beautiful and full of life and sure made my job easy!

Mason's second photo shoot was much fun. He's grown so much in just a few months! Click here for more.

Booked Up

2009-10-20T18:40:00.004-04:00

I'm learning that Fall is a big season for photographers. With the combination of wanting pictures for Christmas cards and gifts and wanting to utilize the beautiful fall colors, I shouldn't be surprised. I have five sessions this week (two through another photographer) and one next week. I'm having a blast and am getting pretty close to pulling the trigger on that new lens!

As I was browsing around etsy for Christmas gift ideas, I couldn't help but purchase this adorable flapper style beanie. I knew Lilah Grace would be adorable in it. She didn't disappoint.

Click here for more of Lilah Grace Part II.

And by "Booked Up," I don't in any way mean I'm not accepting new appointments. Keep 'em coming! I've got a few Christmas gifts I need to purchase too.

Nebraska and Nigusu

2009-10-18T20:02:00.004-04:00

Today was an ideal day in the McAffry house - well, except for the half inch bone I crunched on while eating leftover Calhoun's barbecue. Note to self: Remember giving up barbecue a decade ago after pulling pork all weekend for a church fundraiser? That was a good idea. Never succumb to the pig again. Never.

Anyway, back to the scheduled programming. I spent most of the afternoon rereading The Awakening and The Scarlet Letter on the couch while Andrew watched football. Every now and then he attempts to talk football with me, and being the sweet wife that I am, I try to pretend I know something about this sport that he so enjoys. Today when he mentioned Tom Brady, hoping to participate meaningfully in the conversation, I said, "Who does he play for? The Nebraska Patriots?" The minute it escaped my mouth I wanted to stuff it back in. No, Sarah! Never volunteer unsolicited information about sports not involving a racquet. I learned my lesson, and I'm afraid Andrew did as well. We spent the rest of the afternoon silently enjoying our respective hobbies.

Since we were unable to attend Catalyst this year, I've been watching any video I can find. This one in particular is unbelievable. If you have time, watch it in its entirety. Otherwise skip to 3:45 to see a Compassion child meet his sponsor of 19 years. We will never write a letter to Nigusu in the same way again. And I hope one day we can travel to Ethiopia to meet him. May we impact his life as this sponsor did for his child.

Catalyst 2009 Compassion Moment from Catalyst on Vimeo.

Family

2009-10-16T11:37:00.004-04:00

Last weekend we celebrated five Cole family birthdays. It's so fun being part of such a big family.

Eighteen of the twenty in the Cole family were in attendance; that's a rarity.

Guess who was the star of the show?

None other than Miss Lucy.

Yesterday Lindsay and I drove through the rain to see Brittany in Johnson City.

This long overdue two hour visit was worth the three hour drive. Brittany graciously treated us to lunch at Cafe Lola, a lovely little French bistro. If you're ever in the area, I highly recommend it. When we we saw the dessert menu, we just couldn't decide which one to share so we shared three different desserts! Man I love these girls.

Since we can't make it to Audrey's 8th - yes, that is her 8th birthday - on Saturday night, we decided to take her shopping.

She chose to go to Target - my kind of gal. I got sidetracked a few times, but we made it to the girls section, and she found the perfect outfit.

A girl after my own heart, she chose ice cream instead of a pretzel at Target.

Menchie's in Turkey Creek is officially my new fave. After our California trip, we dreamed about opening our own self-serve yogurt shop because they were on every corner out there, but somebody has beat us to it.

Audrey wanted to draw on the chalkboard before we left. She wrote "I love Andrew and Sarah." Couldn't have given us a sweeter thank you.

Oh, and she drew a heart, a peace sign, and earth. We may have a little free spirit on our hands. When Andrew asked her why she erased the earth she drew, she said, "I don't draw good earths." Hilarious.

Things I Learned This Week

2009-10-11T22:25:00.004-04:00

I have one of the best jobs on the planet. I left work three days this week thinking about how much I love my job. Unless a job exists that requires wandering the streets of Paris, taking pictures and eating baguettes, I think I've got it pretty darn good.

Wealth isn't always measured in financial terms. In fact, I have found that the less I have in my bank account, the more wealthy I feel. It reminds me to take account of the many other blessings God has given me. The lines have fallen for me in pleasant places; indeed, I have a beautiful inheritance. Psalm 16:6

Sometimes God calls us to do things that keep us shaking in our boots (or kitten heels as it was today), and He doesn't always take that fear away. In fact, in the words of Ms. Beth Moore, He tells us to "Do it scared." I just hope and trust that there's a reason for it - cause it sure ain't much fun. As we learned in The Inheritance DVD tonight, we can't be wimps; He is developing our muscle to be able to handle the blessings he has in store.

I love DVR. I used to just pretend that I didn't like any TV shows. Truth was I never even watched any to give them a chance. This year, I have a few too many shows on my lineup: Brothers & Sisters, Modern Family, Real Housewives (shhhh), Guiliana & Bill, Rachel Zoe. The first episode of Modern Family had me laughing for two weeks.

Sometimes I can be obsessive. What's that I hear? You're not surprised? Okay, me either. I decided yesterday to work on my website, so I ended up in front of the computer screen for 12 straight hours. But it's done! If you haven't seen it yet, please visit the new Sarah C. Photography official website. I feel like a legitimate business owner now. Hope you like it.

Infrequent

2009-10-05T19:41:00.002-04:00

Friday night Andrew and I stopped by the Powell game so I could join the PHS Singers and alumni to sing the alma mater and national anthem before the game. Considering how much I hate standing in front of that many people, all was going well as the stadium silenced in preparation for the first note. One of my 4th period students chose this precise moment to stand up and scream my name across the crowd. Oh my. I wanted to crawl into a hole and disappear.

Only time will tell if I'll be courageous enough to brave the crowd again.

Saturday I finally broke down and decided to clean the house after not sweeping for - well, maybe I'm not yet ready to share that kind of information. I share a significant portion of my life on this ole wall, but I'm not quite ready to disclose how infrequently I clean our floors. I'll admit it's even more infrequent than the blog posting has become lately. Rest assured that the McAffry residence is looking good now though.

I spent Saturday evening with this sweet girl.

Click here to see more.

Harbinger

2009-09-27T20:29:00.004-04:00

This Italian Stallion celebrated his 24th this weekend, and he was kind enough to give us at least a few hours of his precious time.

Uncle Mark came in from Denver, and, like Matt, gave us just a few hours before hopping on the boat with Papaw to float down the river for a week.

I have a hunch that Mama Ese was giving him some safety reminders.

Sure looks like a natural, unposed picture, huh? Nope - total fake.

You know how some people cook a meal and they either have really good potatoes or a perfectly cooked steak? Well Mom don't play that game. She goes all out on each element of the meal.

I made this s'more brownie recipe in honor of the backpacking trip Mark, Matt and a crew of some others will be taking next weekend.

We woke Saturday morning to a deluge, and I must say I was quite content to stay in bed reading while Andrew whipped up some homemade buttermilk pancakes. I didn't actually get out of the bed until 1:00.

And even then I just moved to the couch to read some more.

What can I say? Milly's lethargic nature was rubbing off on me.

I started and finished My Sister's Keeper this weekend.

I'm thinking the best harbinger of being one of the biggest dorks on the planet is not reading a 400 page book in two days, but rather injuring oneself by reading the 400 page book in two days. If tennis players can get tennis elbow, then readers can get reader's wrist, right? Well, I'm here to tell you it exists and though not exactly painful, it is absolutely aggravating.

Wild Ride

2009-09-20T20:44:00.003-04:00

My alter ego, Sarah C., you know the laid-back, adventurous, artsy girl, had quite an exciting weekend. It started with a session on Friday with Tate S. in celebration of his upcoming one year birthday. The weather held out for about thirty minutes, and then it unleashed on us. Luckily we found a fun little nook under cover to take some pictures, and his parents graciously let him play around in the rain for some fun pictures at the end.

Click here to see more of this sweet face.

Saturday morning, back as regular ole Sarah, I coordinated a tennis clinic for middle and high school players in effort to raise some money for a ball machine and a new net. We had a great turnout; nearly twenty kids showed up. My hope is that we can generate more interest in the community for the sport, and who knows - maybe this could even become an annual event.

Saturday night, Sarah C. made another appearance at the Oak Ridge High School Reunion for the Class of 1969. I was the second shooter for another local photographer. He taught me so much in the few hours I worked with him, and I can only think of one reason I shouldn't do it again - equipment envy! Surprisingly I have made it through the weekend without buying a new lens, but it hasn't been easy; I'm not making any promises about what might go down on B&H in the near future.

Tonight we started the new Beth Moore study "The Inheritance." I'm not sure what I think about not having homework in this study because it is usually so fruitful, but maybe that will just leave more time to allow the truths we learn to sink in. Not only is Moore an incredible Bible teacher, but the lady seriously cracks me up. Tonight she talked about how if you are bored or boring, you are out of God's will. Believe it or not, many of her main points came directly from Paris Hilton's Confessions of an Heiress.

Here are a few of the notes I took from the DVD we watched tonight:

There is more to life than being good.
It's only a wild ride if somebody else is driving, so let go of the wheel and scoot over.
Control freaks do not have fun.

You know when you feel like the preacher's sermon was just for you - as if no one else is in the room because it speaks so specifically to your life? The comments above did just that for me. I'm so excited about this study, and where it will take me. I've been doing the wild drive for a while; I'm officially ready for the wild ride.

Iron Fist

2009-09-17T21:29:00.004-04:00

I hadn't raised my voice with my second period once this semester - that is, until last week. They are a wonderful class, but when they wouldn't give me their attention in the last few minutes of class, I had to set them straight. It went a little something like this.

**Raised eyebrows and intensely firm voice.

I feel like I'm not in control right now. (Pause.) I don't like not being in control. (Pause.) I can rule with an iron fist if I have to. (Extra long pause with fist slightly raised for dramatic effect.) Do you understand?

**Abrupt switch to sweet teacher voice.

Now, don't forget to study for that quiz, class. I can't wait to see you tomorrow!

I haven't had to raise my voice since. In fact, we have shared a few laughs over my iron fist speech.

More of the Same

2009-09-13T20:49:00.004-04:00

I'm wondering if you can really call it Saturday when your alarm goes off at 5:30 AM. That's exactly how ours started since we were supervising the Praxis test at Bearden Middle. Somehow we lucked out by working half the time we normally do while also getting paid double what we normally do. No complaints here.

Andrew wants to make it known that as soon as he finds that elusive job, we won't be doing this anymore. We'll let him think that anyway.

With this attire, I don't think any test-takers questioned where we were headed.

We had a blast tailgating with friends all afternoon.

Entrance requirement: oversized sunglasses.

Maybe a little premature?

Since it was my first game of the season, we hiked through the sea of orange to get to the Vol Walk.

I started regretting it when the claustrophobia kicked in. Andrew lifted me up to remedy that, and it just so happened to be a great angle for pictures.

Next time we'll get there a little earlier; this was all I saw of the players - a quick glance through the front of the bus. I did however get to see them rocking the bus back and forth. Just when I began fearing for my safety, I looked at the bus driver, and he didn't seem concerned, so I let it go.

We finally found Matt and his crew in the tailgating madness, but much to his relief, I forgot to take a picture. Just add a thick mountain man beard to the Torchbearer, and we'll call it close enough.

Much to my relief, I didn't have a ticket to the game so I went home after the Vol Walk. The atmosphere and hanging with friends - love it; as for the game - I can take it or leave it. I enjoyed some much needed solitary time at home watching a foreign film that Andrew wanted nothing to do with. I've never really appreciated animated films, but Persepolis is in a class of its own: witty, insightful, profound. I also found myself rereading Crazy Love. Somehow I ended up in the fifth chapter which ironically was the inspiration behind today's sermon/drama. If you didn't see it, be sure to catch it on the Powell Church website this week, along with my annual attempt at a semi-solo. The night ended with a much needed run along the greenway. Nothing like a little running to clear the mind and find some clarity.

Today, always my favorite day of the week, I spent some quality time with most of my favorite people. Lunch with the rents and my brotha, a visit with MamaEse, a meeting with my new bible study group, dinner at Andrew's parents, a walk with my girls. I threw a much needed nap in there, too. Looking forward to a week of more of the same.

In Perspective

2009-09-07T22:13:00.010-04:00

Even though I'd never even consider entering the ridiculous crowds at Boomsday, I never miss this fireworks display that has become one of my favorite events in Knoxville. I was spoiled for years when we used to make a whole day of riding Papaw's houseboat from Fort Loudon Marina down the river to the city (not to be confused with over the river and through the woods). There is no better place to watch the show. The last few years we mourned the loss of the houseboat and instead watched it from the World's Fair Park - a nice place to still feel in the action without all the claustrophobia issues.

This year we watched the Labor Day festivities from Cherokee Bluff behind UT hospital.

Thanks Brooke for sharing your incredible view.

And for letting us, all 8 of us, invade your house.

The smoke this year was worse than I ever remember it being.

These gentlemen could hardly enjoy the show for all the anticipation about next week's game still six days away.

After laboring most of the holiday away, Andrew and I treated ourselves to some baby time at Melissa's.

I'm sure as a parent you get over thinking every little thing they do as being terribly cute, but as an aunt, I can still think that, right?

I don't remember what this was about though I'm sure it was very important business.

Katelyn with her Nana and without a care in the world.

As I begin to feel the stress of the week creeping up on me, thinking about these sweet little ones is reminding me to keep things in perspective. Thank you Audrey, Madelyn, Jake, Emma Grace, and Katelyn.

Definitions

2009-09-04T16:39:00.003-04:00

In order to stifle the giggles traveling through the classroom, I found it necessary to define these words in class today as we were reading Washington Irving's "The Devil and Tom Walker." These are Juniors, mind you.

bosom: (n) the center of feelings or emotions

prostrate: (adj) overcome, overthrown, or helpless

booty: (n) something seized by robbery or violence

Ah, Friday.

The Journey

2009-08-31T21:10:00.003-04:00

Just last week Rachel came by my room and said she found a blog I should read. How crazy is it that the blog she was talking about is one I've actually been reading for months. Out of the millions of blogs out there, we both happened upon this same one. I have been selfishly keeping it to myself, so I'm now sharing it with you. If you're ever in need of a good dose of reality or humility, this blog is just the ticket. Tonight in fact, I walked in from a jewelry party wishing I could have afforded the $40 bracelet I wanted. Solution: Read Katie's latest post and instantly realize - Who freaking cares about the dang bracelet!?! Problem solved. How to respond to the life she lives is a problem I haven't quite figured out yet.

Please Note: If and only if you have an entire box of tissue at hand, please take the leap over to The Journey. Read the August 14th post for some background on Katie's journey.

At a Premium

2009-08-30T21:34:00.007-04:00

If the first two weeks of this semester are any indication of how the rest of the year will be, I'm in for a good one. My students are wonderful, my new lesson plans haven't bombed, and my stress level is lower than ever even though my free time seems to be at a premium. We did, however, carve some time out Saturday afternoon to enjoy the new Sony Bravia. I'm now officially addicted to On Demand and MyDVR. I never have to miss another episode of Real Housewives again! (I'm even more embarrassed now to admit I'm still watching it despite their crazy antics.) I did discover a new show through On Demand that is much less embarrassing to admit to watching - Royal Pains. I'd never seen an episode before Saturday, but I've now seen four. Yep - we watched four straight episodes. What was that I said about my free time being at a premium? I guess I should take that back.

Saturday I had hoped we could go to the concert at the Square Room, but we settled for sharing a dessert at Cafe 4 with John Curtis and Brooke and peeking through the window instead. Not a bad deal if you ask me.

Andrew and I were both kind of lost after church today without going to Mom and Dads for the traditional Sunday lunch. They were up in Johnson City moving Matt in at ETSU - only one year left! Thankfully, Andrew is totally, completely, absolutely, utterly finished at ETSU. In fact, we rushed up there Friday to pick up his diploma before coming back to help with Homecoming fundraising at the Powell football game. You should see this guy in his new suit. I dare somebody to try to resist hiring him. He is one good lookin' businessman.

This picture of the diploma will have to do. He refused to take a picture in the suit because he knew I'd be bloggin' it.

I got to spend Sunday afternoon with this little guy. Click here to see more.

Bald Headed Beauty

2009-08-23T21:12:00.014-04:00

The McAffry's convened for the second time this weekend at Powell Park for Katelyn's first birthday.

We missed Emma Grace's while in California.

Lil Miss Hollywood was loving these shades.

Katelyn had no time for shades with this cupcake waiting for her.

It took some convincing, but she eventually got down and dirty.

My guess is that he hasn't the slightest clue whose birthday it is.

A rare moment of stillness.

It may take her a while to warm up to you, but this smile is totally worth all the work.

After the chocolate fest it was time for a little rinse.

Something tells me she enjoys being in the spotlight.

And she loves her Nana.

And her Uncle Andrew.

She doesn't mind the camera too much either.

What is it with one-year-olds and sunglasses anyway?

This is Andrew being what he calls "artistic." I call it taking unflattering pictures.

Thank goodness Kim and Rachel have babies coming soon because all the little ones in our family have now passed the one year mark. Ugh - too fast!

Why I Love Him

2009-08-23T20:20:00.011-04:00

I woke up yesterday morning with a nervous stomach hoping I could make it one more day without spilling the beans about Andrew's surprise graduation party. I was so excited that I actually started cleaning house to make use of all my energy. Don't worry, it didn't take long before I tired of that and headed to Moms.

Nana came all the way from Arkansas to help with the party. Aren't her creations beautiful?

Almost so beautiful you don't want to eat them. Almost.

The party went off without a - errr - with a few hitches. Everyone waited for nearly two hours before Andrew arrived. Something about a golf game. I won't go into details though. Let it go, Sarah. Let it go.

I tried to document all the hours before Andrew arrived, so he would know what he missed.

We did save him some of his favorite Cole burgers.

Dad was grilling burgers and hotdogs for 40 people, so this was his station for the night.

The babies were representing.

They showed up in full force.

Andrew strolled in around 7:45 and was shocked to find forty of his favorite people waiting for him.

Mom and Dad graciously let us invade their house (and fridge and pantry and garden) for the partay.

Ahhhh sibling love. (Not pictured: Matt grabbing Andrew's rear end.)

Thanks to Uncle Steve for most of the pictures. He stepped in when I got a little emotional.

Dad and I doing what we do best - preparing dessert.

Mama Ese, Papaw Johnny, Nana and my great aunt and uncle went in with me for Andrew's graduation gift.

A 40 inch Sony Bravia.

My family talked for weeks about how excited Andrew was going to be. How I would never get the remote again for all the baseball games he'd be watching. But this was his first comment to me. "We're gonna be renting lots more movies now so we can hang out on the couch and watch them together." Cue melting heart!

And on the way home, fishing for some compliments, I said, "Honey, is this the best gift ever?" He immediately responded, "No, all those people there tonight were the best gift ever." Cue single tear.

Even though I'm the one he sees everyday, he still said I was the one he wanted to hug first. I wish all women felt as wanted and special as he makes me feel.

He has thanked me no less than 30 times and has rehashed the party all day still questioning why he so many people care that much about him. Thank you to everyone who made last night one of the most fun, meaningful nights of our lives.

Rachel and Jason provided one of the more interesting gifts of the night.

Can you guess what's in the bag? Are you following me camera guy? Andrew had to test it out the minute we walked in the door.

Hop on over to Kirkpatrick's Corner for a special announcement.

I am officially the odd one out.

Bears for Claire

2009-08-21T19:53:00.005-04:00

Don't miss this opportunity to help Greg and Jessica bring their daughter, Claire, home from Taiwan. They are awaiting the call that will give them only about two weeks notice to prepare to travel. The airfare costs are outrageous, and hopefully this fundraiser will help to cover that cost. Your donation gets you a chance to win some great prizes: Nintendo Wii, Chick-fil-A for a year, UT football tickets, a photo session with Shannon Kelley or even Sarah C. herself!

She couldn't possibly be any cuter. Can't wait to meet her in person.

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They're Back

2009-08-17T20:06:00.005-04:00

School is officially back in session, and I'm so relieved the students are finally filling the desks in my room that seemed so empty last week. The first few days were a bit overwhelming with all the new department chair duties I'm dealing with, but already it's so worth it. We're slowly making a few changes as a department, tweaking and refining our teaching practices in effort to do the best we can for each student.

I couldn't wipe the smile off my face as I saw all my former students walking the hallways today. The senior English teacher next door has a class full of my kids from last year, and I couldn't help but step in the door and gush about how much I missed them.

Right now I'm thinking this semester is looking pretty good. In fact, when the bell rang and I walked in the door for second period, the entire class of 28 was bent over their desk silently filling out their student information sheet that I hadn't even mentioned yet. A great first impression for these kids. Let's hope it's not just a honeymoon period!

I only had 30 minutes with each class today - not enough time to get into the syllabus or anything like that, so I presented a slide show about how much I love my life. The reason for this was two-fold: to introduce myself and show them I am a real person with a life outside of school and to inspire them to live the life they love as well. I explained that my purpose as their teacher is to equip them with the skills they need to do that. I guess we'll see how effective that little speech was here in a few weeks.

Haven't been too busy in the way of photo sessions lately, but here is one from this weekend.

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La Mere Poulard

2009-08-10T19:13:00.002-04:00

Those loyal Handwriting on the Wall readers (all three of you) might remember these cookies appearing two other times in my posts, here and here. You might even say I have a slight obsession.

Well just imagine my surprise when the French exchange student I met this summer brought out this tin of cookies (insert gasps of excitement). Only problem was they were a gift for Mme Taylor. It would have been pure torture to watch her walk out the door with these cookies that are nowhere to be found this side of the Atlantic.

Lucky for me she is one of the most generous people I know. She sent me home with the whole tin! I never would have believed anything could top the standard crisp butter cookie, but this version had tiny bits of caramel that actually did improve upon the original.

I don't indulge in regular manicures or pedicures, fancy makeup or hair treatments, but I do believe La Mere Poulard will become a regular treat for me. I found them online!

San Francisco

2009-08-09T17:19:00.008-04:00

We really wanted this vacation to go out with a bang, so we opted for a treat from the mini-bar.

This $3 bag of Famous Amos cookies was so worth it!

The day began at the end of the Powell-Hyde cable car line.

I had no idea we would be waiting in line for nearly an hour just to get on the car. This was the first indication that I had not planned well for San Francisco. I had no clue what we could do for an alternate method of transportation. Normally waiting in line wouldn't be too much of an issue, but with only one day to explore this city, I could just feel the time wasting away.

It was pretty fun to see the men manually turning the cars around.

I guess because everything is so automated in this day and age, it was pretty surprising to see the way these cable cars work.

We rode to the other end of the line to Fisherman's Wharf.

And more importantly, to Ghiradelli Square.

Forty dollars of chocolate and a close encounter with some salt water pearl earrings later, we wondered if that was really all Fisherman's Wharf had to offer. Either we didn't see it all or it's truly a tourist trap.

On the ride back toward Union Square, we stood on the back of the cable car.

It was quite an intense experience. The hills are incredibly steep and we barely had anywhere to hold on. Andrew was trying to hold on to me while also keeping himself from falling and from being whacked by the cable car operator who was flinging himself around while yanking on a lever at random times. I'm sure there was some purpose to what he was doing, but I couldn't find any rhyme or reason to it.

See what I mean by steep? Imagine standing on the back of an open-air cable car where you can barely hang on. I couldn't pass up the photo op though! Don't miss Alcatraz in the distance.

The architecture here is beautiful.

We made it back for our reservation at Grandviews Restaurant on the 36th floor of the Grand Hyatt.

Andrew went for the All-American burger and fries.

And I had a Cobb Salad that I had been craving all week. It was good, but this place has nothing on the Cheesecake Factory's version.

We requested a table by the window and were not disappointed with this view.

The city view was great, but I just couldn't get over the colors of the bay.

Somehow I didn't get a shot of it, but we could see all the way from the Golden Gate Bridge to the Bay Bridge. I can't imagine finding a better view of the city.

Desperate to give our tootsies a break, we parked it on the steps of Union Square for a bit.

Then we had to swing by the cafe for a latte and coffee. I swear when we're home, we don't even drink this stuff.

The plans for the afternoon consisted of hanging around Union Square. Turns out that wasn't the best idea. On the last day of a whirlwind vacation, we were spent - physically and financially - and not exactly in the mood for shopping, as if Andrew ever is. I ended up with a few back to school clothes from H&M, so it ended up being worth it for me.

Somehow I roped Andrew into this DSW store. Utter madness I tell you! They had boxes and boxes of Gucci purses going for $300-500. People were on their cell phone calling everyone they knew and handbags were flying everywhere.

Andrew's pay off for the afternoon of shopping was stopping by the AT&T Park on the way out of town.

Imagine kayakers climbing all over one another in hopes of catching one of Bonds' infamous home runs in the bay. We were only a couple of seasons late!

Everywhere we turned in this city made me long to schedule a photo session here. This massive green door, for one, would have been much fun.

The ride home was smooth sailing. If I was a betting girl, I'd say Andrew spent his time trying to sleep but instead was too embarrassed of his wife conked out with her mouth hanging wide open. This is what I awoke to.

My internal clock was so messed up that it took a minute to discern whether this was sunrise or sunset. After a week full of unbelievable views, this was the only possible sight that could have still wowed us!

All I Wanna Do

2009-08-05T11:02:00.018-04:00

Still reachin' with those titles.

The ride from Monterey to San Francisco was a different kind of pretty, slightly less dramatic than our previous routes.

We decided to drive up 101, a bit more inland, instead of Highway 1 up the coast.

Whoah - how did we end up in Arkansas? Salinas Valley is known as the "Salad Bowl of World" because of its fertile soil.

And the best thing about Salinas? John Steinbeck of course.

Too bad we were three days early for the annual Steinbeck festival. I know Andrew hates we missed that.

I think I'm going to have my students make t-shirts with this quote for extra credit. I want one myself!

This quote totally sums up why Steinbeck is my favorite writer.

I absolutely can't wait to show this picture to my students!

My favorite scene in Of Mice and Men is when Lennie offers George all his ketchup to show George how much he loves him. If you haven't read this book, go out and get it immediately! It's less than 100 pages and just thinking about this scene makes me get a bit emotional - even sitting here in the freezing cold San Francisco airport.

Next on my list of Steinbeck books to read is The Winter of our Discontent, a fictional story about the disillusionment of the American Dream. If you had a look at my syllabus, you would see most of the works I choose deal with this topic. I try to find a natural way for these types of discussions to pop up in class. They just don't know that I choose books that will make them happen! Oh, I'm ready to go back!

This is the actual truck and camper Steinbeck used to drive across the country while writing Travels With Charley, his poodle.

On our way out of Salinas we dropped by the big W for a couple more dogs - and by a couple I mean four more chili dogs for Andrew and two corndogs for me. I'm afraid I've fallen for the Schnitz too! Then we busted it out of the ole salad bowl for San Francisco.

On our way to Point Reyes National Seashore, we ran into Lombard Street so we hopped in line to drive down the crookedest street in the world.

It was pretty windy (as in the long 'i') but really pretty with its brick road...

and landscaped flower beds.

I'm not sure why it isn't more famous for how steep it is. I was so nervous that I actually tried to talk Andrew out of it.

That obviously did no good.

I knew the Golden Gate Bridge would be a sight, but I was totally unprepared for how beautiful the surrounding bay would be.

We were too lazy to walk it.

Or bike it.

The drive to Point Reyes was also quite windy.

This pretty accurately depicts how I was feeling.

We were also too lazy to walk to the beach. Might have had something to do with those dogs. And after driving the whole coast, this beach needed a little more drama to entice us for the long walk.

A little worried about time, we opted to skip out on Muir Woods. We were pretty disappointed to leave without seeing any redwoods, but thinking we'd want to take our kids to see them someday, we made peace with our decision. On our way back to San Fran, we stopped in Sausalito, a quaint European-inspired town with great views of the bay. First, we stopped at an area coffee shop.

This picture doesn't show it, but the view from our table was breathtaking.

The latte and tiramisu weren't too bad either.

I'm glad only our first hotel had a scale in the fitness center. Probably best not to know.

The sun was setting as we drove back over the bridge. Perfect timing.

All of these pictures were taken through the windows that haven't been washed for the entire week long road trip, so don't inspect them too closely.

We're not leaving San Francisco yet. Tomorrow holds another day of adventures.

California

2009-08-05T01:55:00.014-04:00

In case you haven't noticed yet, all the blog post titled are song titles from our California soundtrack. It's obviously getting harder as the week goes on!

Monday morning we awoke to a beautifully foggy morning in Morro Bay.

This was the view from our hotel.

And this was the view from our hotel balcony.

Morro Rock, in the background, was hidden in the thick morning fog.

Out of all the boats on the bay, this was my favorite. I have no less than ten pictures of this boat alone.

I know you can't tell, but the birds were everywhere in these trees.

We still just can't get over these views - and they last for hundreds of miles!

First on the itinerary was Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park. A short quarter mile trail led to this stunning site. They advertise it by promoting the waterfall. I think they need to see Fall Creek Falls before calling it a waterfall.

Can you see it there? That little trickle on the left?

I think they should just call it a cliff or a bluff - not a waterfall. Definitely still worth the stop though.

I just can't get over these colors!

Before beginning the 17 Mile Drive, we pulled over at the Pebble Beach Market for a quick picnic lunch.

A round on one of their three courses only sets you back about $500.

The Lone Cypress has become the symbol of Pebble Beach.

Almost as fun as the ocean views around 17 Mile Drive was looking at the real estate. And I'm talking about some estates here, not just homes. Just the land alone is outrageous but add massive, luxurious homes on top of it and you've got some of the most sought after property in the country. No pictures of those - need a wide angle lens too!

After checking in at the Hyatt Regency Monterey, we drove to Cannery Row.

"Cannery Row in Monterey in California is a poem, a stink, a grating noise, a quality of light, a tone, a habit, a nostalgia, a dream. " - John Steinbeck

The old sardine factories have been reclaimed for touristy shops (read: no need to spend much time here.)

I haven't actually read Cannery Row yet, but hope to soon. Along with all of Steinbeck's other novels!

Day Tripper

2009-08-04T00:33:00.014-04:00

More donuts you ask? Yes, I say. There will be many, many more donuts."

Uncle Rick just wouldn't hear of us leaving Orange County without trying Adams Avenue Donuts which, he claims, has appeared on Discovery Channel and Food Network.

After trying them, I believe every word of praise I heard. It's a dumpy looking place with old men hanging around drooling over classic cars, but the donuts are fresh, homemade and cheap. My kind of eats! I recommend the sugar donut, but Andrew really enjoy the maple frosted.

The rest of the day pretty much looked like this. We hit the road for the second leg of our trip.

I got a little nervous when this was all we saw for the first two hours. I got even more nervous when two hours into our drive, we were only at LAX. That took us only 30 mintutes by Jeep on the 405. It's definitely not for those in a hurry!

Then it started clearing out and we were mesmerized by this scenery the rest of the drive.

First stop: Santa Barbara, Stearns Wharf.

I hope you won't tire of Pacific Ocean pictures.

Because they are aplenty.

About half of Stearns Wharf burned in a fire in 1998, but it has since been rebuilt.

These birds are so used to tourists that we are more scared of them than they are of us.

Brave little fellas. We opted to eat inside to stay out of their way.

After foregoing Moby Dick Restaurant's pricey menu, we stopped at a quick seafood place. I ordered a grilled tilapia sandwich.

Andrew - fried shrimp after I talked him out of ordering pizza.

Aren't you glad you have me around, honey?

And here I am with my after-lunch dessert. I really do end every meal with something sweet.

We stopped in Solvang, a Danish village just outside of Santa Barbara. It felt pretty empty there. Kind of like Gatlinburg without all the traffic - and with a little culture and couth.

It still feels weird to put pictures of myself on here, but I've decided to make a book out of my blog - kind of like a scrapbook - so you may be seeing more of me on here!

Considering Uncle Rick Olson recommended we stop here, we had to drop by Olsen's Bakery!

He's so good - no ice cream at Stearns Wharf and black coffee without even a bite of my cookie.

Mmm. A marzipan cookie and a cafe latte on the patio. A much needed rest from the driving.

Just wouldn't feel like Holland without a windmill.

This one's for you, Mom. I know you would have headed straight for this stitchery store.

Back in the car, this is the view on the right.

And the left.

Where did this come from? Luckily we were freezing and had just put the top back up before this strange weather crept up on us.

Speaking of creepy, this was the scene right outside of our hotel room in Morro Bay. At least 50 loud, squawking birds hovering in the hazy mist.

Hoping to escape the birds, we left for dinner at Taco Temple though we were warned lines would be long. No line and no doubt the best nachos I've ever had.

I will revisit this California Fusion restaurant in my dreams tonight.